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Shadow Work - a most misunderstood concept
"Shadows? Its the devil's talk!" "Good vibes only, man! Love & light ONLY!" "The shadow? Who are you, batman?" Welcome to shadow-work: the thing that is about as clearly illuminated as.... well, a shadow. Psychologically, shadow is the part of yourself that you don't want to admit is part of you, or that is resultant from a quality within you that is bright or prominent enough to appear isolated when it is actually dual. If you are saying to yourself, "clear as mud", great be
Kyle Mecca
Apr 39 min read
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"When I finally achieve enlightenment, I'll be..."
A classic one you will hear a lot when on the path of healing, and maybe even say yourself a few times. Now, it will often be masked with language such as: When I reach perfect mindfulness When I get "there" When I heal When I fix my brain When I fix my body When I attain presence Something like that. They are all the same things. It's the ego creating a nice, fun "uphill battle". God how we LOVE an uphill battle. We love the story of the warrior fighting until his last breat
Kyle Mecca
Mar 174 min read
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"I'm trying to 'kill my ego' but its not working! Help!"
Ah, how simple concepts become twisted and misunderstood, a tale as old as time. Let's set this one straight! Attempting to kill anything within you is a form of extreme self-hatred and will only strengthen the grip of that part of yourself upon you by pushing it out of your conscious mind. This includes attempting to kill the ego. I know there is alot of confusion around ego, with resources online seeming to paint the ego as bad, but the ego is necessary for everyday life on
Kyle Mecca
Feb 122 min read
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Is it selfish to take care of yourself and seek happiness?
I once stayed on "Mindful Farm" in Thailand. It was run by an ex-monk. While he was a monk, he meditated and lived off food donations &...
Kyle Mecca
May 20, 20211 min read
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"No Matter What I do, Nothing Works!"
If you have reached out to me directly, chances are you've said this or something like it. I understand your frustration fully - I've...
Kyle Mecca
Oct 1, 20203 min read
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The "To-Do List"
I was recently asked the question: What were your keypoints of getting better? I am asked this question constantly, for good reason! I...
Kyle Mecca
Jan 6, 20203 min read
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Trying to Heal vs. Letting Go of Pain
The following conversation occurred on November 3rd, 2018 over messenger between a friend and I. He asked about how he could move his...
Kyle Mecca
Dec 23, 20189 min read
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What is Chronic Pain, Really?
*I posted the following to a Mindbody Healing facebook group on June 20th, 2018. None of this is intended to be medical information. I am...
Kyle Mecca
Dec 18, 20188 min read
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